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Russel Paisley-An Untimely Death

Posted by: kindermusikkids on: November 5, 2009

My  husband’s  friend and colleague.

We are rudely reminded of how fleeting life is…live it to the fullest

November 3, 2009, 11:20 am

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A Lawyer’s Untimely Death Rattles Courthouse


By John Eligon

Russell Paisley Russell Paisley

In a city of $750-per-hour lawyers and sophisticated criminals, Russell Paisley was the everyman’s attorney. He roamed the halls of New York courthouses, taking on any and every type of case, often representing clients without thick pocketbooks. He was a well-respected and well-liked figure among judges, court officers, his colleagues and many others working in the city’s courthouses. To them, he was one of the faces of an important, yet all too often overlooked cog in the city’s criminal justice system.

Mr. Paisley died unexpectedly last Tuesday at the age of 48, after a routine tooth extraction a week earlier led to an infection that killed him. His death sent a somber wave through the halls of 100 Centre Street, Manhattan’s main criminal courthouse.

“There are a lot of lawyers like him who the man in the street never hears about,” Charles H. Solomon, a State Supreme Court justice in Manhattan, said. “They’re extremely important. They deal with probably over 90 percent of the cases.”

In a profession that is adversarial by nature, Mr. Paisley was astonishingly even-keeled, those close to him said. He was always good-natured, smiling and pleasant, friends said, something that you would not expect from someone of Mr. Paisley’s size — 6-foot-4, about 250 pounds.

“Russ played by the rules and Russ wasn’t win-at-all-costs,” said Peter M. Frankel, a defense lawyer who shared an office suite with Mr. Paisley. “I think that is really what separated him from everyone else.”

Lisa White, a clerk in State Supreme Court in Manhattan, said she and Mr. Paisley had a running joke. When they were in the hallways outside the courtroom, Mr. Paisley would often ask, “Who’s your favorite attorney?”

Everyone around would fall silent, Ms. White said, before she responded, “O.K., it’s you, Russ.”

Mr. Paisley spent several years as an assistant district attorney in the Bronx before going into private practice as a defense lawyer in 1993.

Sgt. Herb Koenig, a court officer in Manhattan, said Mr. Paisley always impressed him with the dedication and persistence he showed toward his clients. In one case, Sergeant Koenig said, Mr. Paisley stuck with a client who kept on falling in and out of drug addiction for about five years until she finally was able to complete a treatment program successfully and turn her life around.

Sergeant Koenig said that when he had to take a leave from work for about 10 months because of an illness several years ago, Mr. Paisley called to check on him and sent him a card.

“Anybody could stand up and say something, but the caring, going the extra mile is what made him different — the concern for everybody,” Sergeant Koenig said.

The day after Mr. Paisley died, Justice Carol Berkman allowed Mark Cohen, one of Mr. Paisley’s colleagues, to say a few words about him in her courtroom before starting the day’s cases.

“We forget to pause for these huge events,” Justice Berkman said. “We just say, ‘Ah well, some other widget will pop in its place. It was quite a moving experience to hear him do that.”

Mr. Paisley is survived by his 17-year-old son, Zach. Mr. Cohen, Mr. Frankel and other lawyers are planning Mr. Paisley’s funeral.

But first, they are giving Mr. Paisley a fitting sendoff from his second home: they have scheduled a memorial service for Wednesday at 5 p.m. in a courtroom at 100 Centre Street.

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H1N1 Update

Posted by: kindermusikkids on: October 27, 2009

Many  of my families have been expressing concerns regarding the  vaccine

and where to get it. Below is the latest information for  New Jersey.

 

ESI Medical has received H1N1 vaccine for the State of New Jersey. If you are registered in any other states, more information will come shortly as we secure vaccine there.
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> You are receiving this email because you have registered for the H1N1 informational updates from ESI Medical. You DO NOT need an appointment for any of our locations. The administration fee is $15.00, we accept cash or check.
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> Below are the following counties and the type of vaccine we have received. You can visit www.GetMyFluShot.com to find the dates and addresses of each location.
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> Hewitt, NJ-Passaic County- Nasal spray for those healthy people aged 2-49 yrs, and injectable vaccine for those aged 3 years to 64 years.
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> Manahawkin, NJ- Ocean County- Nasal spray for those healthy people aged 2-49 yrs, and injectable vaccine for those aged 3 years to 64 years.
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> Toms River, NJ- Ocean County- Nasal spray for those healthy people aged 2-49 yrs, and injectable vaccine for those aged 3 years to 64 years.
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> Point Pleasant, NJ- Ocean County- Nasal spray for those healthy people aged 2-49 yrs, and injectable vaccine for those aged 3 years to 64 years.
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> Holmdel and Englishtown, NJ – Monmouth County- Nasal spray ONLY for those healthy people aged 2-49 yrs
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Flu Prevention

Posted by: kindermusikkids on: October 23, 2009

Prevent Swine Flu – Good Advice





Dr. Vinay Goyal is an MBBS,DRM,DNB (Intensivist and Thyroid specialist) having clinical experience of over 20 years. He has worked in institutions like Hinduja Hospital , Bombay Hospital , Saifee Hospital , Tata Memorial etc.. Presently, he is heading our Nuclear Medicine Department and Thyroid clinic at Riddhivinayak Cardiac and Critical Centre, Malad (W).



The following message given by him, I feel makes a lot of sense and is important for all to know



The only portals of entry are the nostrils and mouth/throat. In a global epidemic of this nature, it’s almost impossible to avoid coming into contact with H1N1 in spite of all precautions. Contact with H1N1 is not so much of a problem as proliferation is.



While you are still healthy and not showing any symptoms of H1N1 infection, in order to prevent proliferation, aggravation of symptoms and development of secondary infections, some very simple steps, not fully highlighted in most official communications, can be practiced (instead of focusing on how to stock N95 or Tamiflu):



1. Frequent hand-washing (well highlighted in all official communications).



2. “Hands-off-the-face” approach. Resist all temptations to touch any part of face (unless you want to eat, bathe or slap).



3. *Gargle twice a day with warm salt water (use Listerine if you don’t trust salt). *H1N1 takes 2-3 days after initial infection in the throat/ nasal cavity to proliferate and show characteristic symptoms. Simple gargling prevents proliferation. In a way, gargling with salt water has the same effect on a healthy individual that Tamiflu has on an infected o ne.. Don’t underestimate this simple, inexpensive and powerful preventative method.



4. Similar to 3 above, *clean your nostrils at least once every day with warm salt water. *Not everybody may be good at Jala Neti or Sutra Neti (very good Yoga asanas to clean nasal cavities), but *blowing the nose hard once a day and swabbing both nostrils with cotton buds dipped in warm salt water is very effective in bringing down viral population..*



5. *Boost your natural immunity with foods that are rich in Vitamin C (Amla and other citrus fruits). *If you have to supplement with Vitamin C tablets, make sure that it also has Zinc to boost absorption.



6. *Drink as much of warm liquids (tea, coffee, etc) as you can. *Drinking warm liquids has the same effect as gargling, but in the reverse direction. They wash off proliferating viruses from the throat into the stomach where they cannot survive, proliferate or do any harm.



Some Good Advice!

From Our Friends At Sesame Street

Posted by: kindermusikkids on: October 18, 2009

Here is a flyer and a video regarding the H1N1 virus.

If youre a fan of Elmo…this one’s for you

!

sesame street flyer

Introducing….ABC Music & Me-Newsletter

Posted by: kindermusikkids on: October 8, 2009

Dear All:

I am proud and pleased to present our first installment about our ABC Music & Me preschool/Kindergarten curriculum.   This newsletter is dedicated to the latest finding and research regarding quality early learning programs.  Parents are our best advocates.  This newsletter highlights an interview with a parent of a special needs child, just like yourself.

I am so excited to be able to offer the opportunity to schools/facilities in NY/NJ.  Planting “seeds” of knowledge and hoping to grow a garden full of schools that can experience the tremendous benefits of ABC Music & Me.

Enjoy!

ABC Fall Newsletter

Mommy, When Can We Start Music Lessons?

Posted by: kindermusikkids on: October 5, 2009

Dear All:

Article from BabyCenter written by Pediatrician David Geller, talks about the age that children are ready for music lessons, and even mentions Kindermusik

http://www.babycenter.com/404_when-can-we-start-music-lessons_6876.bc

Recall On Tylenol Products

Posted by: kindermusikkids on: September 22, 2009

Thank you to my fellow moms for bringing this to my attention!

Read the labels on your bottles!

http://www.wtvr.com/wtvr-tylenol-recall,0,3483445.story
http://www.tylenolprofessional.com/assets/TYLENOL_Letter_091809.pdf

Positive Steps Regarding H1N1 Virus-Teaneck NJ

Posted by: kindermusikkids on: September 13, 2009

Kudos to Interim Superintendent Denham for providing peace of mind to the community.
A clear definitive response to the pandemic is just what the doctor ordered!
Apropos to this posting which provides valuable information that can be applied to residents as well,
I am re-posting the germ article I wrote.  Now more than ever prevention is key.
Click here to read:

http://kindermusikkids.wordpress.com/2009/03/07/simple-ways-to-keep-your-family-healthy/

Schools concerned over possible return of swine flu
Thursday, September 10, 2009
Last updated: Thursday September 10, 2009, 3:47 PM

BY LAURA D’ONOFRIO AND JAIME CANNICI
Teaneck Suburbanite
STAFF WRITERS

Say goodbye to reading lists, sunscreen and ocean waves. It’s back to school time in North Jersey, and area school districts have a major concern on their mind – the possible return of the swine flu this fall.

The talks follow the N.J. Pandemic Influenza Preparedness Influenza Summit Aug. 18. More than 600 New Jersey educators and health officials met to discuss their response to the swine flu.

Federal health officials are anticipating a return of the H1N1 virus and New Jersey health leaders say the state should focus on the role of schools in combating it because of children’s particular susceptibility.

Interim Superintendent of Schools A. Spencer Denham said Teaneck Public Schools are ready for the first day of classes. They cleaned the schools as they normally would every summer, adding to the process.

“As we do every summer prior to the start of the new school year, we have thoroughly cleaned and disinfected all of the buildings in the District,” explained Denham.

“Last Thursday we held a cleaning seminar for our Custodial Staff, which was given by Atra Janitorial, our Custodial Supply Vendor, in which he reviewed the different viruses that we will be potentially dealing with this coming fall, as well as, disinfecting cleaning procedures to follow. The main focus is to clean all horizontal surfaces, such as floors, desks, counters, etc. with our disinfectant cleaning chemical. Most bacteria will grow on horizontal surfaces that are wet or contain organic matter, while vertical surfaces will dry quicker and therefore have less bacterial growth.

“The next area to focus on cleaning with our disinfecting cleaning chemical is the vertical surfaces or touch points, such as door knobs and panic bars, walls and light switches. He also reviewed the proper cleaning techniques to be used when disinfecting bathrooms, which is a main area for bacterial growth. All of these disinfecting cleaning techniques will be implemented on a regular basis once school starts to help manage the potential threat of the H1N1 virus,” said Denham.

The Custodial Staff was directed to make sure that they wear protective rubber gloves while cleaning for their own safety. They were also told to make sure that all paper towel and hand soap dispensers are full and in working order.

“The main way to deal with bacteria on the skin and to prevent it from entering the body is to wash the hands with hand soap and warm water. It is also recommended that if you sneeze to do so either into a tissue or your shirt sleeve as to minimize bacteria becoming airborne and then settling on surfaces,” said Denham.

Teaneck has a number of specifics to line up their response to H1N1. They will be using the Center for Disease Control (CDC) guidelines and will look for flu-like symptoms such as fever, cough, sore throat, runny or stuffy nose, body aches, chills and fatigue. Some cases included vomiting and diarrhea. School officials and faculty have a job to do, but parents must also be extra cautious and keep their child home if he or she is sick and visit the doctor.

Teaneck schools have established a system of ongoing communication with staff that is clear, timely and consistent in case of an outbreak. Teachers received education about preventative practices and this year, because of early information from the CDC, school officials have been more proactive in planning and articulating the plans and procedures to the school community.

Denham feels confident that this system works during a bad scenario, “We have good communication and positive collaboration with local agencies and keep informed about the latest recommendations from county and state health officials. As events change, we will adapt and adjust our plans according to revised guidelines.

“Our teachers have been notified that they are to keep detailed lesson plans for three weeks in advance. Schools will take a survey so that we know which students would have access to the Internet. Assignments will be posted on teacher Web sites and regularly updated for those students who have access. The schools are making arrangements to send those without access work through the U.S. Mail — again, as recommended by the CDC.”

Schools will be enacting tabletop drills to plan for various scenarios, said Denham.

The district is looking into purchasing sanitized wipes for computer keyboards where there are multiple users. They increased a campaign for hand washing with soap when appropriate, which follows the CDC guidelines, as per county and state health officials. All toilets in the schools are “automatic flush,” which alleviates some concerns.

Denham said the district is always concerned about anything that might affect the health of students and staff and that they “take the possibility of an outbreak of seasonal and novel H1H1 seriously.”

“We are monitoring the situation carefully and will continue to meet with school physicians and our nursing staff so that we may provide education for prevention,” added Denham.

Teaneck was one of the districts that reported a possible swine flu case at the end of the school in June.

“Last year, we had numbers of students and staff who exhibited flu-like symptoms. In each situation, we attempted to get a confirmation of the flu type. There were some “false” identifications and a few cases. We have no precise numbers,” said Denham.

According to another Interim Superintendent, Bert Ammerman, of Northvale, the state’s summit on H1N1 preparedness left him with one major message about the upcoming season – the unpredictability of the flu season is the only predictable thing.

E-mail Cannici@northjersey.com

In Memory Of-September 11,2001

Posted by: kindermusikkids on: September 11, 2009

As we go about our daily business of living let us take a moment to reflect and remember and receive a fresh perspective on our priorities.

Re-post in honor of the beautiful souls.  Gone but not forgotten.

The day dawned with the sky threatening to rain, the birds twittering anxiously and I, feeling a general unease and restlessness. So unlike that fateful day, 7 years ago, where the sky was cloudless, bright blue and the day had the promise of a new beginning. The school year had just begun, I was rushing to attend to the mundane activities we all contend with-and then we witnessed the most heinous act of our time-and our world was changed forever.

It has taken me 7 years to gather the strength to even face the possibility of recalling those moments and the aftermath. So much so that even on this 7th anniversary, when much of the world has allowed the memory to fade, I still was unable to write on the day of. Hence this, belated posting. Think of it in some surreal way, as a belated anniversary gift to all the survivors and in memory of those who perished.

Rewind to 8:45am, Sept 11, 2008. I hurriedly dropped of my son at day care , anxious to return to the T.V. and the sanctuary of my room where I could watch and remember. The reading of the names has been an absurd ritual for the past 7 years. Much like a horrible car accident where one wants to look away but is compelled to look on at the horror.

Her last name begins with a “C”, so I didn’t have long to wait. Then there it was. Her name captioned by her picture. As I tried to digest, the speakers were already reading another name and once again, she was gone.

I had been transported back in time and could immediately recall the sights, sounds and smells. The day the earth stood still. Figures emerged from dark clouds engulfing the city in black, the walking dead, the survivors. Already broken-their lives never the same. The images tortured viewers endlessly. Replayed over and over so often that one began to question where reality began and ended.

I viewed this new reality with my fellow colleagues from our ‘teachers lounge’ in our school in Brooklyn. The city was closed off from all. Denying passage or entrance to anyone. I recall speeding down the Van Wyck-a general impossiblity with the throngs of traffic. The world was a ghost town and I was a restless spirit wandering. I took refuge in my small rental in Queens, waiting to return. A few days later the bridges and tunnels were re-opened and slowly life revived for lack of anything better.

But I digress. It is in her memory that I write and so I shall continue. I am haunted and yet oddly comforted by her picture. The one that flashes on the screen each year and the one I saw plastered on the glass table by the concierge with a child scrawl beneath that simply read “Have you seen my Mommy”?

This is the image that haunts me. In the immediate aftermath there was a flurry of frenetic activity, something for the survivors to do-walking the streets and the endless questions. Hope diminishing more each day.

I stared at the familiar face. I had just seen her and the kids that Sunday at a street fair. New Yorkers are not known for their neighborliness and most occupants of our building limited their interactions to an occasional nod or a brief hello. She was different. She lived across the hall, had two beautiful children and her door was always open. She always had time to chat give a biscuit to our Alexandra-most wouldn’t go near a Doberman-Rottweiler much less feed one. She was warm, caring and loving. Our lives intertwined-it wasn’t uncommon to find the kids and Alex playing in the hallway. She was my friend and excited about beginning her first day back in the workforce after being a mother for so long. Working at the World Trade Center-How exciting!!

I never saw her again.

Patricia Malia Colodner-I write your name in the hopes that the black and white markings will bear proof to your existence. May G-d watch over you and the others and send your souls spiraling ever higher into the heavens.

Swine Flu and the Enviroment

Posted by: kindermusikkids on: September 6, 2009

Should schools be responsible for conducting EPA standardized tests such as with asbestos:?  Will that make a difference?

Here we have the first communication linking the environment to swine flu.
Many neurological diseases are environmentally connected.
Despite the fact that indoor air quality can be up to 10 times worse than outdoor air quality, there is no effort to test the affected schools as the “underlying” symptoms.
Why are kids getting this disease more than adults and in schools near toxic sites?
 

The New York Times


September 4, 2009

Report Finds Swine Flu Has Killed 36 Children

Federal health officials reported Thursday that at least 36 children in the United States had died of swine flu as of Aug. 8, including many who had underlying disorders of the nervous system. Some also had chronic lung disease, and one had leukemia.

But some of the children had been perfectly healthy, and died of bacterial infections with staph or strep that set in after the flu.

A report on the deaths was published online Thursday by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention and discussed at a news conference by Dr. Thomas R. Frieden, the centers’ director.

The report said the confirmed death count among people of all ages was 477 as of Aug. 8, but it focused on the toll on children.

The 36 who died ranged in age from 2 months to 17 years, with a median age of 9 years. Nearly two-thirds had nervous system disorders like cerebral palsy, muscular dystrophy or developmental delays. Children with nerve and muscle problems may be at especially high risk for complications from the flu because they cannot cough hard enough to clear their airways.

It is too soon to tell whether the H1N1 swine flu will turn out to be more deadly in children than other types of influenza, Dr. Frieden said, adding that in most years 50 to 100 children die of seasonal flu. But so far the swine flu seems to be taking a heavier toll among chronically ill children than the seasonal flu usually does.

The deaths mean that children with neurological conditions need to be seen quickly by a doctor if they run a fever, Dr. Frieden said.

“Treatment in the first 48 hours can make a big difference in hastening your recovery,” he said.

In children without chronic health problems, it is a warning sign if they seem to recover from the flu but then relapse with a high fever, Dr. Frieden said. The relapse may be bacterial pneumonia, which must be treated with antibiotics.

Dr. Frieden urged that children be vaccinated as soon as swine flu vaccine becomes available, probably next month. Health officials have recommended that children be among those given first priority for the vaccine, because they seem more vulnerable than adults to the H1N1 virus and to complications from it.

Pregnant women will also receive top priority for the vaccine, because they have a high risk of infection and complications from the flu.

Glen Nowak, a spokesman for the disease centers, said health officials worried that pregnant women who were vaccinated and then had miscarriages would blame the vaccine. But he said there was no evidence that flu vaccine increased the risk of miscarriages, which generally occur in 15 percent of pregnancies. Even so, Dr. Frieden said the disease centers would carefully monitor miscarriage rates to determine whether the new vaccine had any such effect.

Another report issued Thursday, by the Institute of Medicine, recommended that health care workers treating people with swine flu protect themselves from infection by wearing a type of specially fitted mask called an N95 respirator, which is tighter and better able to seal out viruses than the more common types of surgical masks.

Dr. Frieden said the disease centers had not yet had time to evaluate the new report about masks. A spokesman for the centers said the nation had 79.7 million N95s in the “strategic national stockpile” controlled by the government.

To put the H1N1 flu in perspective, Dr. Frieden emphasized that so far, most stricken people had had a relatively mild illness and that the virus had not become any more virulent over time in the United States or any other country.

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